Diabetes Educators to the World
I try to be upbeat. I try to gently inform and educate people about my diabetes and diabetes in general. For the most part, I keep to myself my sharper, nastier comebacks to "can you eat that?".
Though I'm no CDE, I consider myself an advocate and an informer, someone willing to talk openly about diabetes in an effort to put good information out there. I trot out quick little explanations with a smile.
I suspect that you, you who live with diabetes and know more about it than most medical professionals... I suspect that you are the same way.
But I have to say, every once in a while, I just want to smack someone. Because, my friend, it turns out that there is such a thing as a stupid question.
"Are you going to pass out?", asked when my pump jammed at a meeting the other day.
"Are you a severe diabetic?", asked by a radio host interviewing me this morning.
"How can you have juvenile diabetes? I thought only kids got that?", during another radio interview.
Smile. Grit teeth. Begin pleasant two sentence diabetes education routine.
Sigh.
I understand that, if diabetes is not part of someone's everyday experience, there is no reason they should have a solid understanding of carb-to-insulin ratios, fast-acting vs long-act, or even the the differences between type 1 and type 2. I know little to nothing about other conditions and illnesses, and don't expect to encounter expertise about diabetes everywhere I go.
But I think that my experience as a person with a chronic illness has taught me to lead with a question (accepting that I don't know much about condition xyz) rather than put my foot in it.
And I'm grateful to those people who ask questions about diabetes and listen to the answer.
4 Comments:
Ug. Sometimes those questions can be so damn frustrating can't they?!
And I too appreciate genuine questions rather than having to help people take their feet out of their mouths.
I've been fortunate to not encounter too many stupid questions, but I too feel the urge to strangle people on occasion.
Y'know, I wouldn't even mind the stupid questions if they were prefaced with "I don't know anything about diabetes, so pardon me if this is a stupid question, but...." I try to do that if I don't know anything about someone else's condition or disease or whatever.
Good questions from people who genuinely care and are going to listen are much better than stupid assumptions from those who aren't going to remember what I say anyway.
A favorite from a friend who is type 1 with severe gastroparesis and 'so thin he wears shoes in the shower so he doesn't go down the drain' - is the people who tell him if he'd only lay off the sweets he'd be okay.
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